Breaking down the steps of success pt.1 negativity

In order to be successful you have to think successful because if you dont believe your successful it simply wont happen for you. some people wait there whole life for success to come to them and for some people that actually works but for most of us in this world the only way to be or get rich is to strive for it. Which leads me to the people who are likely the negative people in your life dragging you down. I say that because these are the people who in there mind believe they are better than you because they currently have more than you or they are currently doing more than you at the moment. This includes friends who currently have jobs when you dont and you ask them for simple favors and its like asking them to chop off there hand. It could be something simple like can you put a word in for me or just in case you see any jobs hiring can you simply get the info for me but they wont because they like there current status in uour friendship. This also includes friends who are in school especially college when you aren't they feel the need to try to persuade you or push you into the thoughts that just because you aren't in college your not doing nothing with your life but these are the same people who are jumping into college undecided which is not bad but its like dont coach me when you dont even know what your going to do. Then there are the ones who have picked out a major which likely is business because they feel with a business degree it can give them the world and a degree in business will make them successful and rich which is wrong. I say that because how many people do you believe are thinking the same exact way. The odds off getting a job even a entry level with a business degree is pretty steep. This is because jobs have to review several canidates for the position and if you just have business degree what distinguishes you from the other canidates. Honestly nothing but a grain of salt. Basically long story short dont let any one sway you from your dreams and surround yourself with positive people who give you that support when you dont know what to do. These are the people who you may not even be that close with these may be the people who just call to check up on you or just try to see how your doing. These are the people who show a little effort to know the everyday life of you. So basically:

1. Rid yourself of negativity
2. Surround yourself with positive people im not saying ditch everyone you who you think are bad IM simply saying have more positive people in your life than the negative like a 10 to 1 scale
3. I dont care who you are you will not be successful without support of at least one person so make believers out of your friends, strangers and of course your family. Without support only you see your dream of what you want to be which is cool but at the same time it wont get you nowhere.
4. Actually define your vital goals in life and make alot of smaller goals at least 5 to 1 or 10 to 1. These small goals give you the confidence to strive for the larger life goals.
5. Last but not least have a direction in life of where you want to see yourself. It distant matter if its JuSt wanting to see yourself alive. You know without direction you have no path in this great walk of life.

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